Thursday, June 28, 2012

MEDS


M.E.D.S Plan

Does your libido seem to be down in the dumps? There are many reasons for a low libido. It is really hard to have sex when you are thinking of everything other than getting busy. Some of the leading causes for having a low libido are:
  • Stress
  • Fatigue
  • Feeling overwhelmed
  • Hormone level (such as being on contraceptives, or going through menopause)
  • Ill Health
  • Emotional Concerns

As I mentioned in an earlier post once you start having sex or at least orgasms you will start feeling better and better but how do you get started? The MEDS plan works great at getting you in the mood.

M is for Mind-set

How do you feel when you are wearing comfy flannel PJ’s you may feel comfy and cozy but I bet you are lacking some of the sexy. How about when you wear a sexy piece of lingerie that fits you perfectly? I bet you feel a whole lot sexier. A Sex state of mind is making yourself always feels like you are wearing something that makes you feel super hot.  Simply decide in the morning that you are going to put time and energy into your sex life instead of thinking about how awful you look and how many things that you have to do instead of have sex.
Inattention to your sexuality will rob you of your youth quickly. Every day you must make the decision to think about how sexy and wonderful you are and show that in what you wear both out in public and even in bed. Even if you are by yourself that does not mean you can’t look and feel sexy.

E is for Exercise

I know if you are like me it is hard to make yourself exercise on a regular bases but it is a proven fact that being fit brings confidence which is the number one aphrodisiac. Having sex is a great way to work out. If you are tired and out of shape (trust me I know) you are less likely to want to have sex. A great tip for couples is to go learn to dance together. You will lose pounds as you learn to move together.

D is for Diet (including water)

Much like the exercise we need to get lots of fruits, vegetables and lean protein. Chinese medicine says that sexual energy is in our kidneys, so keep them strong and healthy. Some ways to do that include eating:
  • Beef
  • Blueberries
  • Celery
  • Dark mushrooms
  • Eggs
  • Lamb
  • Lobster
  • Miso
  • Molasses in warm water
  • Mussels
  • Ocean Fish
  • Olives
  • Oysters
  • Shrimp
  • Walnuts
  • Well-cooked tofu



Do not eat fried foods, creams, excess sugar, salt, saturated fat or highly processed foods. These make it harder for you to reach orgasm.
Stay hydrated. Drinking lots of water keeps your system working well. Lubrication and semen uses lots of water.

S is for Sleep


Relaxation and rest are essential to good health. Having sex makes you relax and easier to fall asleep. Take a bubble bath with a good book or maybe some soft music. Sit outside with your lover for 30 minutes (if the temperature is pleasant) and just talk about your day. The better you sleep the more energy you will have for doing all the fun things.

Monday, June 25, 2012

Recipe for Delicious Kisses


Try this idea to create delicious-tasting lips, this recipe will create steamy kisses. Making out will make you hungry for more to come with the following elixir to spritz into your mouth fresh from a perfume atomizer or to discreetly swig from a jar or glass. use if after eating a romantic meat to get dessert started early.

  • 1 teaspoon fresh mint leaves
  • 1 teaspoon rosemary leaves (dried works but fresh is better)
  • 1 teaspoon of anise or fennel seeds
  • Zest from one orange
  • 2 cups of water
Mix all ingredients and bring to a gentle boil. Simmer for fifteen to twenty minutes. Cool your potion, strain it, and store the infusion for up to a week sealed in the refrigerator. Shake before using. Take one tablespoon each time and swish it around your mouth completely.

Does that seem to hard?


Try this for a faster fix.

Mix a teaspoon of baking soda into a eight ounce glass of water and add a drop of pure peppermint oil. Minty fresh and kissable in a flash. Swish all around like mouthwash. I don't suggest swollowing.

Imagine your lover's face surprise when you let him know you made this delicious kissing potion yourself. It will tell him/her without words how much you love making out with him/her.




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Wednesday, June 20, 2012

two to tango


Sex Challenge: Two to Tango
Raciness Factor: Bold
Benefits: Develops Intimacy a d improves sexual skills

Exploration is another secret to a long and satisfying sex life. Ivite your sweetie to a two-session self-pleasure class for two. Go into the bedroom and keep the lights on so you can watch each other. Take turns masturbating while the other watches. Enjoy the spectacle of building desire with the penis going from soft to hard and the vagina swelling and becoming wet and juicy. A blind fold may help the one who is masturbating feel a little less inhibited. Feel free to cuddle, caress each other, and whisper encouraging words to each other. But keep your eyes open so you can make mental notes of what exactly your partner is doing to bring such delight.
                The next night, practice doing what you saw to your partner. This is a brilliant exercise in building your communication skills and learning some of each others’ secrets. Remember to tell him how erotic he/she looked and share your thoughts afterwards over a glass of wine or while taking a romantic walk.

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Premier Wand- Wait until you feel this beautiful beating heart! This is a top-of-the-line wand because only the best will do for you. Don’t waste your time with a flimsy, inferior wand when you can have something substantial that is made with the finest quality out there. Premier Wand, our newest and best massager, is flying off our shelves at a rapid rate. The reason? Every girl knows she needs a good pair of black pumps in her closet and a magic Wand hidden in her nightstand. The Premier Wand not only delivers power, pulsations and rhythm, it also looks extremely stylish and playful. Waterproof.

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Friday, June 15, 2012


I found this book a while ago and I loved it. It is called Great Sex for Hard Times by Kim Switnicki. I think it has some great information and ideas how to put some life back in the bedroom without breaking the bank. I am going to post a few of the ideas and add some of our lower priced items to give you all the pleasure of those more expensive items.

Orgasms:

 Orgasm should not be the goal or focus of lovemaking- even with self-pleasure. Discovering what pleases you, enjoying being in the moment while engaged in sexual play, and connection in an intimate, honest way with you lover is the real challenge.

Sex Challenge:

You’ll need: Bubble Bath, body lotion, mirror, drink, paper and pen
Raciness Factor: Bold
Benefits: Increases Inner Sensuality

Indulge in a sensual bubble bath and explore you body’s luscious curves. Include your breasts and all the delicate parts of your vulva. Take your time. Close your eyes, and think about the most amusing sexual and sensual experiences you had in the past and what made them so erotic for you. Masturbate if this turns you on. After your bath, dry off and look in the mirror with love and acceptance for your hole incredible body and apply a silky lotion to every party of your body (except your vulva- please never put lotion done there). Don’t forget your sexy toes. Sip on something yummy, maybe wine or a cocktail, or maybe a fruit smoothie. Write an erotic love note to yourself, taking at least three minutes. Celebrate how erotic you are and how much more erotic energy you will have after this challenge. Some of the great products to make this challenge a real joy

Slumber Bubbles
Slumber Bubbles. Is a pheromone bubble bath that fills the bathroom with a soft strawberry scent and the pheromones will get you charged and ready to go.







Vibro H2O
 Vibro H2O- Say goodbye to that boring bath sponge that just gets you clean ~ this one does the same thing yet is WAY more exciting! Soothe your tired muscles while stimulating and deep cleansing your skin. The massage motion helps to relieve tension while getting your skin clean in a much more fun way.  There is a waterproof vibrator tucked inside this bath sponge and with both sooth    and excite.

Cloud Nine
Cloud Nine- This all natural, rejuvenating moisturizer and body massage oil has just a hint of flavor and will leave your skin with a satin finish. Spritzing on Cloud 9 after your bath or shower will help keep skin supple, dewy and irresistible. Made with Hemp Seed Oil, this moisturizing in-home spa treatment nourishes your skin with a light and luxurious formula of vitamin enriched oils. This fountain of youth in a bottle leaves your skin younger looking and will tantalize your lover with a succulent delight.

Thursday, June 14, 2012

What is Pegging

I have always gotten a lot of questions on pegging so I found this great article that I hope will clear things up. Again if there is ever a topic that you would like me to cover please contact me.

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By , About.com Guide Updated November 03, 2011

The term pegging, in a sexual context, refers to anal sex where a woman anally penetrates a man, in most cases using a strap on dildo harness. While people have probably been calling the activity pegging for a long time, the term was popularized when Dan Savage ran a contest in his Savage Love column in 2001. The contest was launched to address the absence of a widely adopted term for this sexual practice that seemed to be gaining in popularity (or at least more people were talking about it). Following the announcement of a winner the term pegging began to be used more frequently by individuals and sex stores carrying products like strap on harnesses and anal dildos.

 

From Bend Over Boyfriend to Pegging

The term pegging is also sometimes referred to as Bend Over Boyfriend, or BOB for short. This term originated from an earlier pegging landmark, the production of the first educational video for straight couples about male anal penetration, Bend Over Boyfriend (buy direct, $25). Released in 1998 by Fatale Media the video offers information on techniques and gear. The idea for the video came from the writer and director who worked as of sales people at Good Vibrations who were fielding more and more questions from straight couples and wanted to offer them some information in a more accessible way. A few years following the release of Bend Over Boyfriend, SIR Video released a second title and in subsequent years at least two instructional books have been released on the topic and one sex toy kit specifically designed for pegging.

 

How Common Is Pegging?

There are not any reliable statistics on how many people engage in pegging or whether or not it’s become a more popular sexual activity. Most anal sex statistics that have been gathered for heterosexual couples never bother to distinguish who is being penetrated. Men may be asked whether they have had anal sex (in many surveys in the past there has been no distinction between non-penetrative and penetrative anal play), but the survey won’t ask whether he was the penetratee or penetrator. Anecdotal many sex shops report a rise in sales of anal toys to heterosexual couples where the couples disclose that they are interested in male anal play.

 

Pegging Tips and Techniques

Pegging like any kind of anal penetration can be a safe and highly pleasurable sexual activity, provided it’s done properly. Many people, particularly straight men, have psychological baggage around the anus and rectum, and often these ideas have to be dealt with before pleasurable anal play can commence. There are three things absolutely required for pegging:
  1. Communication
  2. Patience
  3. Lubricant 
Great Slumber Parties Products to help the experience:
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Anal Eaze

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Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Foreplay

Men are like microwaves women are ovens. If your sex is half baked your oven is not preheated

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

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Sunday, June 3, 2012

Rasins are good for your Sexual Health

So I just read several articles about how important raisins are for your sexual health.I thought I would pass on this great information.
As always if you have questions please do not hesitate to contact me either by this blog or by going to SlumberPartiesByMeganDoughty.com

The role of raisins in sexual health

Last updated on: June 2, 2012 10:46 IST
Rediff.com
Raisins are rich in Vitamin A, selenium, potassium, iron and Vitamin B, and they also contain high levels of arginine and polyphenolic phytonutrients.

The role of Vitamin A in sexual health
Studies have shown that Vitamin A deficiency can cause impotency. This is because it plays a very important role in progesterone synthesis -- and progesterone controls the entire menstrual cycle in women.
Vitamin A also helps in keeping the inner lining of a woman's vagina and uterus healthy, without any damage. This nutrient plays a key role in maintaining epithelial tissues and women should include raisins in their diet for this very reason. In males, Vitamin A deficiency can cause atrophy in the testicles and decrease the overall production of sex hormones.

Vitamin B deficiency can affect a person's metabolism and bring down the overall amount of energy produced within the body. This vitamin is responsible for the metabolism of fats, proteins and carbohydrates and inadequate amounts of it in the daily diet can result in constipation, lethargy and fatigue. You'll need to eat Vitamin B-rich food items like raisins to maintain your sex drive. Women should also include a lot of Vitamin B, including folic acid in their diet, as these components help get them pregnant. It helps in keeping the skin healthy as well and this can positively contribute to your sex life. Vitamin B deficiency can also cause problems in the digestive system and in the nervous system, and this can affect your sexual life indirectly.

Selenium is a very important mineral that's essential for maintaining your sexual health. Studies have shown that this mineral can help in improving the quality of sperm produced. Selenium can't increase the sperm count, but it can surely help with motility, improving the chances of conception in this way. Selenium helps in boosting the immune system and protecting the heart against any diseases or disorders as well, so there are many advantages (other than sexual ones) involved with maintaining a proper selenium intake. Selenium is present in semen, so men lose this mineral in a regular manner. Adding raisins to the daily diet can keep the body well supplied with selenium.

Not much is known about arginine, which is a critical component that can define your sexual performance. Arginine helps in the production of nitric oxide, and this component is essential for proper blood flow throughout the body. Nitric oxide also plays a major role in maintaining male erections. It helps in relaxing the blood vessels in the genital region, facilitating blood flow to the penis in this way. Not only does it help males, it helps females by regulating the blood flow to their genitals too. Basically, arginine performs the same action as Viagra, and the only difference lies in the fact that it's natural and for this reason, much safer. Very few food items contain good quantities of arginine and raisins are one among them.

Raisins are packed with antioxidants, and these components help keep the body young by slowing down the aging process and beefing up its immunity. Antioxidants can help in reducing the risk of contracting cancer and they can also help in removing all toxins from the body.

Friday, June 1, 2012

Best sheets ever

I bet these would start some fun in the bedroom

Masturbation

 OK today's topic is a question I get all the time, is masturbation normal? I am going to talk about the importance of masturbation and why it is completely normal and healthy.
Let’s talk about the health benefits of orgasms

sex can cure headaches

 All those times that you were told, "Not tonight honey, I have a headache," all you had to do was inform your woman that one of the health benefits of sex is its ability to act as a pain reliever. The hormone oxytocin (a nine amino acid peptide that is synthesized in hypothalamic neurons and transported down axons of the posterior pituitary for secretion into blood) secretes within your body whenever you engage in sexual activity.
Because of this secretion, endorphins (hormone-like chemicals that bear a close functional resemblance to morphine) are released. When a person is aroused or excited, oxytocin levels not only begin to increase, they are the reason that orgasms come about. Studies have shown that a rise in oxytocin levels can relieve pain; everything from headaches, cramps and overall body aches can be diminished with a simple roll in the hay.

reduce stress, sleep well

 A recent survey revealed that people who have more sex reported that they felt more at ease, happier and learned how to handle stress better. So perhaps the term "sexual frustration" is not too far from the truth. After an orgasm, an intense wave of calm and relaxation overcomes humans (that's why men usually fall asleep) and it's a time when people can truly liberate themselves and let go. Plenty of people who enjoy a regular dose of sex convey that they sleep much better during the night and feel alive and refreshed throughout the day. So, one of the health benefits of sex is a better nights sleep, which allows you to handle day-to-day stress much more efficiently

increase blood flow

It goes without saying that when we get aroused our blood starts to pump at a quicker rate and, thus, blood flow to our brain increases. Both an increased heart rate and more blood pumping through the brain result in better performance (in and out of the bedroom). What this ultimately means is that the fresh supply of blood pumping through your body provides the organs with a healthy dose of oxygen and rids the body of old and wasteful products. So, another health benefit of sex is a cleansed system. Treat your temple right with the help of a little excitement.

body maintenance

One of the health benefits of sex is that it helps to keep you fit and it can keep you in constant awareness of your body image. Everyone likes to know that they have a nice physique and continually being naked in front of another person can be somewhat of a good incentive to stay in shape. Believe it or not, sexual intercourse burns off 150 calories every half hour. Although the average couple engages in sex for approximately 25 minutes a session only three times a week, it still accounts for 450 calories that are better taken off than put on. If you're more active than average, then that will only make things more beneficial for you and that lucky gal. A health benefit of sex, particularly a rigorous hour of sex, is that it may burn even more than 300 calories depending on how rigorous you get.

fountain of youth

Although the orgasm is sometimes referred to as the "little death," having at least two orgasms a week can increase your life span. Every time you reach orgasm, the hormone DHEA (Dehydroepiandrosterone) increases in response to sexual excitement and ejaculation. DHEA can boost your immune system, repair tissue, improve cognition, keep skin healthy, and even work as an antidepressant. Therefore, a health benefit of sex if you keep the orgasms coming, is potentially a longer life.

more hormones are good

Both testosterone and estrogen levels experience a boost through regular sexual activity. Testosterone does more than just boost your sex drive, it helps fortify bones and muscles, and it keeps your heart in good working condition as well. In women, sex increases the levels of estrogen, which protects against heart disease. Ever wonder why women love the touchy, feely stuff so much? It's because of their rise in estrogen levels. This hormone also plays a huge role in a woman's body scent. While estrogen makes women sentimental, a rise in their testosterone levels is what makes them desire penetration. Men also produce estrogen and as they age, their estrogen levels increase while their testosterone levels drop. This reversal often results in men becoming somewhat calmer as they get on in years.

health benefits of sex galore

It's quite evident that there are many health benefits of sex. It increases brain power, heart rate, it can help fend off diseases and ailments, and it makes individuals feel good about themselves. In today's stressful society, it has become a little more difficult to engage in intimate sexuality as often, but as long as you incessantly make the effort, you'll realize that it's always worth it. The health benefits of sex will make you feel wonderful within and without and you will gradually notice that the more sex you have, the more bounce you will have in each step. Happiness isn't sex itself, but sex does ultimately play a role in human happiness.


Easing depression and stress

Bass says this is pretty definite. “The release from orgasm does much to calm people. It helps with sleep, and that is whether we talk about solo sex or sex with a partner,” she says. But wait, there’s more. A recent study of college students at the State University of New York in Albany suggests that semen acts as an antidepressant. Females in the study who were having sex without condoms (see safe sex caution, above) had fewer signs of depression than women who used condoms or abstained from sex. “These data are consistent with the possibility that semen may antagonize depressive symptoms,” the authors wrote, “and evidence which shows that the vagina absorbs a number of components of semen that can be detected in the bloodstream within a few hours of administration.” I kid you not, ladies. Semen is good stuff. It gives a shot of zinc, calcium, potassium, fructose, and proteins -- a veritable cornucopia of vitality!

Countering prostate cancer

Over the past few years, several journals have published studies showing that the more ejaculations the better. Now the Journal of the American Medical Association, no less, has reported that “high ejaculation frequency was related to decreased risk of total prostate cancer.” It doesn’t matter how a man climaxes -- intercourse or masturbation. So next time he says, “Really, honey, it’s therapy,” he could be telling the truth. 

Healing wounds

Some evidence suggests sex can be rejuvenating to the point of helping wounds to heal faster. Several experiments have shown that oxytocin can help even stubborn sores, like those suffered by diabetics, to heal by regenerating certain cells.